Please do it for me

in this life, we are gladly exposed to love, wither its thwarts our families, soul-mates, friends or even food and clothes, that love is a drug of choice to be frank, we all are addicted to love, wither we admit it or not.
we do many activities with the people we love, we eat, drink, talk, gather, shop and even have sexual intercourse's with them, we share our thoughts and secrets, laughs and tantrums, and in some situations, every single aspect of life.
sacrifices, that's what we also do for the people and the things we love...
some quite their jobs to get married, some change their style, their attitude and in some parts of the world - AND get this! - change their faith and religion!
absurd, one might say, in fact, that's what a single person, a loner might say, but the truth and the reality of the things we do for our loved ones, is fascinatingly shocking!
now, I've been in a couple of relationships, those relationships changed me, molded me and in some situations, Upgraded me.
I was never bothered to "tweak" myself for my significant other, wither it was hard or easy to do, I've always considered listening to her, and give her the benefit of the doubt, because sometimes, people as you to change, because they love you and want you to get better, but what bothered me is the ... "please do it for me"...
the "please do it for me"  is a phrase commonly used when the other party asks for something that might not make you better nor upgrade you, in fact it might even make you worse.
I've made allot of "please do it for me", and I've done them with a real smile on my face.. well most of the time.
I know, some of you are wondering, haven't you used a "please do it for me" before, and my comeback would be, yes I've done that, numerously!
but the difference is, I never, and I promise you, never! asked for something that might make my other half worse, because when I use this phrase, its simply for a small situation, like meeting a friend that my partner doesn't like, or going to a rave, an alternative rock concert, a museum, a benefit, a poem recital, I promise you and I am sure about the promise, because I ask the person I am with about the usage of that phrase.
on the other hand, I must admit and be true, the person I am with now, made allot of sacrifices without me asking, made sure to tweak and upgrade himself, just to make sure I am comfortable, well ... sometimes, but the good thing is that it comes from him.
now back to our topic, isn't it really annoying?
please do it for me!
if it has no beneficial purpose to both parties, I do not agree of using it, and I simply reject it, because it might lead to a very lonely road.