i mean, you meet up with some one, whether its for a one night stand or to see if they were relationship material, you expect sex...
i am not going to go into the useless pointless details, i am just gonna go and cut through the chase...
How do you know if it was good to them?
personally...
when the person in bed screams "oh yes, give it to me, yeah harder, oh i LOVE IT, OMG!!, i'm cumming I AM CUMMMIIINNNNNNG" ... i know it was good, but...
silents sex...
that's tricky, i don't like asking the was it good question, i just don't!, sometimes it sounds pathetic, and the other times it shows that i lack self esteam, and... hey i know i am good, in fact i am genetically engineered to do hot sex... not to brag but i know a thing or two about a thing or two!
but!
i need to know, i need audio proof, some sort of encouragement if you say so, during sex to give a better... job! and after, to keep on doing that job ;p.
now, there are the mean mean hideous fucking machines, who no matter how good you "fuck" them they just say "it was o.k"
now I've never been with someone like that before, but my friend hector, he is Colombian, his girlfriend nikita is one of those machines, i swear nothing ever pleases her!
in that case, i suggest you experiment, i mean what would be more than o.k?
a threesome? vibrators? Belgium chocolate?
i seriously don't care, i mean if i was in that situation, i would go above and beyond to please the person with me, so i could be pleased too!
i mean my ego would hit the roof if i was affirmed so i would do a better and better job each time, any way!
the was it good to you question is embarrassing to me, but if i was in a spot where i had to use it, i think i will, i mean i know good sex and what it feels like, and i certainly know bad sex and how miserable it feels like!
so i don't want anyone, especially the one i am with to have a bad sexual experience, so i guess, yeah i would ask, even if I'd turn all red and purple, i think its a mature thing to do...
dontcha?
